Can We Talk About It?

Peter was in denial…

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IT WOULD NOT be accurate to say that He talked about it all of the time, but it would also not be accurate to say that He never talked about it.

Jesus talked about death–specifically, His own death.

“From that time Jesus began to show to His disciples that He must go to Jerusalem, and suffer many things from the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and be raised the third day” (Matthew 16:21).

He told those closest to him, “I’m gonna die.”

I think of those occasions when I learned of a friend’s or loved one’s impending death.  “I can’t believe it! It can’t be so!”  I was in denial.  In retrospect, I realize now that my reaction was pretty normal.

Peter felt the same way.

“Then Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him, saying: ‘Far be it from You, Lord; this shall not happen to You’” (Matthew 16:22).

He was in denial, too.  He had different expectations for Jesus and he couldn’t wrap his brain around Jesus in a tomb.

And yet the Lord kept bringing up that awful, scary subject (Matthew 17:23; Luke 9:22) over and over again. “I’m going to die, fellas.”

So why did He keep talking about it? Why did He keep mentioning His death?

Part of the answer is that He was preparing them beforehand; He was teaching them how to work through the cross and the tomb.  But part of the answer is that He was teaching them, and us by extension, how to navigate with faith through the valley of the shadow.

You see, merely talking about death didn’t kill Jesus. The murderous crowd did that.

But talking about His death helped the twelve work through their fear, anticipatory grief and bereavement. It helped them, whether they realized it or not at the time, to process and prepare for that awful day when Jesus would breathe His last.

This is helpful to me. I don’t know that I need to be talking about death every time that I sit down at the dinner table, but I do know there are times when I should-and must-broach the subject…especially when either I or a loved one knows that death is approaching.

▪ “I’m feeling scared about dying.”

▪ “Okay, let’s talk about it together and see what the Bible says…”

▪ “It’s okay for you to go on–I don’t want to you fight and suffer just for me…”

▪ “What do you want at your memorial service?”

These kinds of conversations are healthy and biblical. Spiritually healthy people talk and communicate about any and all subjects–even death.

Jesus said, “I’m going to die, guys. Let’s talk about it…”

“God loves you and I love you and that’s the way it’s gonna be!” – Mike

Will the Real Messiah Please Stand Up?

“Are You the Coming One, or do we look for another…?”

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I HAVE TO confess that initially this passage made me scratch my head.

Based upon what is recorded earlier in Matthew 3, John’s question to the Lord in Matthew 11 really didn’t make sense.  It appeared, at least on the surface, as something of a biblical contradiction.

  • Chapter 3 says Jesus came to John for baptism (3:13).  John objected at first, but Jesus convinced him otherwise and the immersion took place (3:16a).
  • Scripture then records that the heavens opened up and the Spirit descended in the likeness of a dove.
  • At that same moment, the Father declared, “This is My beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased” (3:16b-17).

Whatever doubts John might have had about Jesus prior to this occasion, they must have been erased, for he was in the presence of the Godhead and had incontrovertible evidence as to the identity of Jesus.  And yet, when you get to Matthew 11, John (now in prison) sends a rather puzzling question to the Lord.  He asks (via a messenger), “Are You the Coming One, or do we look for another?” (11:3).

What?!  Wait a minute!  “Are You the Coming One…?!”  How can Jesus not be the One?!  John, have you somehow forgotten about what you saw and heard back at the baptism?  Are you suffering from some type of self-induced amnesia?  Has imprisonment clouded your mental faculties?

Of course Jesus is the Coming One (cf. John 6:14; 7:40)!

Evidently John, like many of his Jewish peers (Acts 1:6), held certain preconceptions about the Messiah.  He was looking for a king like David of old.  He was looking for a military figure who would overthrow the yoke of Roman tyranny and oppression.  He was looking for a political entity who would restore the kingdom to its former glory.

From John’s skewed vantage point, Jesus didn’t exactly fit with his Messianic expectations.  Instead of initiating zealous political rallies and instigating a coup against Caesar, the Lord humbly moved among the common people of His day, teaching them and healing their sick.  Instead of courting the Jewish hierarchy, Jesus bumped elbows with the unsavory elements of society (9:10; 11:19; 21:32). Instead of delivering His cousin and forerunner (John 1:23, 30, 33-34) from incarceration, He—for some unknown reason—allowed him to languish in a first-century jail cell.  John embraced the traditional view and couldn’t reconcile the Lord with his long-standing bias.

“Are You the Coming One…?”  I hear doubt and confusion in John’s question, despite what he had seen and heard back in chapter 3 at Jesus’ baptism.

It occurs to me that John is not the only person who has ever looked at the Lord through the lens of prejudice and predisposition.  Often times I hear statements to this effect, “Jesus NEVER called names.”  (He didn’t?  John 8:42-47).    “Jesus was NEVER blunt with folks.”  (He wasn’t?  Matthew 8:22; 15:16; 21-28; Mark 2:1-5; 9:14-32; Luke 17:11-19).   “Jesus NEVER got angry.”  (He didn’t?  John 2:13-16; Luke 19:45-46; Mark 3:6).  “Jesus NEVER taught baptism was necessary for salvation.”  (He didn’t?  Hebrews 1:1-2; Mark 16:15-16; Acts 2:38; 22:16; Romans 6:1-4; 1 Peter 3:21).  Folks view the Lord in light of how they’ve been raised or what their “pastor” or parents have taught them, and not in harmony with what the Word actually says about HimHe’s a product of long-standing oral tradition and not the actual Coming One revealed in the Bible.

Dear reader, I urge you to study carefully what Scripture says about Jesus.  Cast off the shackles of preconception and get to know (1 John 2:3, 4; 5:20; John 1:10; 14:7; Acts 13:27; Philippians 3:10) the real Messiah.  What you want Him to be, what you expect Him to be, and what He IS may not be the same thing.

“God loves you and I love you and that’s the way it’s gonna be!” – Mike